How do you know when you’re right?

I'll have a nasty smile on my face.

A lot of people won't easily accept that they are wrong, mind you, he will say he is right. Often times I experienced this, I have this office mate which we don't like. He also wants to on up of everything. However, every time he does something it will not work. Mostly, he has a sloppy performance, what he will do for his defense, he told my boss that it was my fault.

With all the deliberation, I am innocent then I smiled at him sarcastically. I think knowing that you've done something good helps maintain composure and a very nice feeling towards others and yourself of course.  I love to respect people's opinion they have the right to do so,  the other party must respect my liberty also.

This is a free country, let us make it a better place to live. I encourage you to speak out when you know you are right. 

What happen when you know you're wrong?

Conscience will bother you all the time. Guilt feeling has always been there, and you cannot sleep at night.  It's very difficult to manage things when you're wrong, definitely your appetite, work and health will be affected. Your stress level is very high but often a slight stomach ache will burst out.

Most likely, anxiety will develop if the thing gets worst. Just be honest and accept the fact that you've made a mistake, rather keep it to yourself and have all these awkward feelings. You cannot turn back time in the meantime make all the appropriate measure to correct it.

Beg for forgiveness, this is the only way. If you're forgiven, then you are lucky. However, if not, you should face the consequences of your action.

A Wish List - Something I Should Have Said.

I Wish I should have said this, but I don't have the courage.

Sometimes telling the truth is the hardest thing to do. However, doing nothing at all makes you the stupid person in the world. Often times I am guilty with this statement, I can't utter the word personally rather I just kept it. That makes me a crazy person because when that someone is not around, I am talking to myself!

Doing the right thing is a big plus, human as we are we seek refuge to our loved ones or friends who have been there for the longest time. They comforted us whenever we made mistakes. However,  they are the first one to criticize and scold when you do so.

If you could make anyone in the world stop talking for 24 hours, who would it be? And why?

I have a friend. He's such a nuisance. His mouth is mumbling like hell, and every time he talks, he will tell you the same thing over and over. I want him to stop talking for four hours or so and evaluate himself if the person around him is still listening to his nonsense.

I think there are certain people in this world whose very insensitive. Their instincts and brains are not working well. On the other hand, there are intelligent people whom used their brains for just merely talking without any relevant achievement.

And if you could make anyone talk more for four hours?

I would like to see myself  talking for four hours. I am not an open type person when it comes to my emotions, I can hardly talk if I am mad with someone, I just keep it to myself. Blogging is my outlet it captures my true feelings and emotions, whether I am happy or sad, lonely or confused.

Aside from that, I would love to talk to my husband often since we're not seeing each other that much, He is working  faraway from here. A good conversation with him is all I need to keep the love grow stronger.

What do you hope your kids will say about you when grown up?

This is a tough one. I hope my kids would say when they have grown up "Thank you Mom for a job well done!" you brought us nicely.

My niece & two cute nephews

As of the moment, I don't have any kids, however, I do have a niece and two cute nephews. I was there when they are still babies now they are getting bigger and getting older, time passes by so quickly, and I am not getting any younger.

I would like to see my future kids to have a good heart to those in need, be a God-loving person, generous, live simple yet living life to the fullest. I want to instill their young minds to respect the right of every human being, be loyal, have perseverance in everything they want to achieve in life.

Hence, giving your kids the right to live is one way of showing they are much love, and it is endless, Moreover, instilling good values makes them a well-rounded person. As they say, Children are the reflection of the Parents.

I hope we as a parent have the opportunity to give our very best to mold the characters of our kids, later they will appreciate and thank you for it.

Have a happy life ahead!

Who is your favorite parent?

It is very difficult to choose from both parents, since they're always been there for me since the beginning, until now. Filipinos would rather die for their family. It has been our first priority in life.

A home without a mother or father is not is just an empty space. However, there are circumstances that neither you, nor I can stop. I treasure both of my parents. I don't have a favorite parent. They are equally loved by me. My mother had to work as a street sweeper. She is employed with the Local Government Unit in Davao City to help alleviate our poor family.

My father, on the other hand, work as a taxi driver, he has been working since he was 5 years old. Now he's getting old and still working. Notwithstanding his health condition, he strives very hard to bring food to our table and pay the bills.

My sisters and I, had been there to support our parents in our own little way. S honor them for their handwork and a job nicely done for raising us very well.

Home Alone during the Halloween

I have decided not to go to Lupon, Davao Oriental to celebrate the Halloween. For the time being, I stayed i the house. My hubby is on duty, he is advised to report to the police station since a lot of people will be at the cemetery to visit and remember their departed love ones.

For now, It's time to do the laundry to keep myself busy. These past few days I was a bit lazy to do it, but if you looked at it now it's huge. So I am eager to wash it.

I am planning to have a movie marathon. I will browse through  internet for a good movie. I am an abit  here so just bear with me.

It's almost time for dinner. I will cook something to indulge myself with good food. My appetite is not quite good, but I have to eat. Just, a fast fried fish is all I need. simple and easy. :)

A Lazy Wednesday

I woke up late today. I am still sleepy, and my brain is empty. I dragged myself to take a bath, after a while I felt refreshed. I ate my breakfast then headed to the office. When I got there, it seems too shallow maybe and the atmosphere kind of lazy not cozy.

During the day, I've encountered noting but a hypocrite. I can feel that my blood pressure is rising, so I calmed down a bit. Why does there's such a fellow?! My mind was screaming so badly. I drowned myself with my work to forget everything, and I did. Alas!

After the office, We went to the barbeque Grill Restaurant Located at Obrero Street, Davao City with my co-worker and her husband to eat and enjoy the rest of the evening. Hamm...I'm so full!

I went home and sleep early. That was my Wednesday!